jdt33:

Hate to break it to some of you hoes, but the sexual activity, material things, & little amount of time he spends with you when there’s nothing else to do doesn’t make you wifey. He can get that out of any female.

Be his backbone, give him the stability to stand up and stay up. Be his support 

system, his biggest fan, his motivation to be better. Prove that your loyalty is with him and ONLY him. Love him just as strong (if not more) when times are hard. Be the one & only thing in his life that he knows he can always count on at the end of every day. Choose your battles wisely and be willing to compromise. You cannot expect a good man to be handed to you on a silver platter without putting time, effort and hard work into it. Men do not go by what they hear, they go by what they SEE & FEEL. Hold him down by any means necessary & you’ll prove yourself wifey. It seems like genuine females are becoming distinct in today’s society, so you’ve got to show him that what you have to offer is irreplaceable.